Katherine asked a while ago why we spelled our daughter's name the way we did, so I thought I would answer that. No, she's not named after Cary Grant.
My mother and grandmother are named Cary. It's an old family name, as my family settled in the town now known as Cary, North Carolina
when they came over from Scotland.
Huh, on doing a Google search of Cary, North Carolina, I found that it's now the "Technology Town of North Carolina". Interesting.